I am back, back from a wonderful vacation spent at parent's home! I am seeing them, after two months and this is our first visit to my home. Bharathy expressed my thoughts so rightly saying 'Amma's place is any girl's best place in the whole world!' Though I have always felt this way, it was more prominent and heart warming this time. Distance bonds more and yearning to their company becomes more pressing. They shifted to the city of Joy, some 5 months back and they visited us last, during our twins birthday. This is the first time that we have lived separately.
Even after my marriage, Dad convinced my dear hubby to move down here. And after so many years, we were faced with the fact that we might end up living in separate places for some time. It was really heart breaking, since it was the first time I am ever away from them. Each day passes with great difficulty, there was never a night passed without my daughter crying for my mother and me sharing her feelings.
My daughter had the pleasure of spending the maximum time with her and bonds with her so much. Though we speak to each other every day and again whenever we feel like, the thought that I can't see her the moment I want to, pains me so much. When my brother visited them, I wanted to see the pictures taken at their place. But somehow I never did. Each time I speak over the phone, I try to picture how she must be expressing each word and where she might be sitting. Now I had taken enough pictures to colour me when I hear her voice over the phone. Hubby used to tease that we don't have a Mother's place to spend the vacation since they were living in the same building. His wishes came true, when we planned for this vacation.
We flew down to Calcutta. Its a first experience for me and my daughter. We were trilled and excited about it. The morning when we scheduled to take off, Chennai saw its worst foggy day. Everything was so foggy and we couldn't see anything. Imagine that in Chennai! We were not sure if the plane was going to take off or not. The 2 hours delay had its effect on all of us. When the captain announced the take off, there was an excited shout from all. Nothing can compare the feeling of first time. I still remember the first time I jumped into a pool as a 10 year old, the same feeling captured me and the feeling was great.
The journey to home from the airport was quite tedious and the kids were so restless. The roads were filled with people and so many things. 10 years seems to have taken its toil on the city which had always been so beautiful in my mind. When I last visited the place, I was filled with memories that were so peaceful and wonderful. Now the city has become more crowded and hectic. But it kept to its name of being called city of joy. People celebrated Christmas for 3 long days. Roads were filled with all decorations and excitement runs round all places. We finally reached home, so exhausted and tired. My first sight was, of Amma standing with her arti, after we got out of the lift. It was simply too great. Days just flew and though we didn't really do much of sight seeing, we all enjoyed our stay, simply by staying at home with parents.Also this was the first time we have ever stayed at home for so many days on vacation. We met few wonderful people. Dad had infact, showed my blog to few of his colleagues. I was really trilled to know that they had visited it few times.
Dad ensured he meets his grand daughter's needs and everything was waiting for her. Konda refused to come back with us. This week saw me cooking some of our favorite dishes for Dad, though I have already featured most on this blog, I still took pictures of them. So coming days will feature the cooking that happened this past week.
Though I wanted to cook something new for this event, I unfortunately find myself having not much time. Since Bindiya confirmed its fine with her if I just send pictures of my favorite chocolates, I am sending these, which I took specially for her. These were what Dad had got for my kids. Not to say my favorites too.I am especially so fond of Cadbury's Almond Temptations.
'The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it... I can resist everything but temptation', said Oscar Wilde. The most favorite of all apart from Shakespeare. How can I not yield to it.
This beautiful picture full of chocolates goes to the lovely Bindiya.
Raindrops on roses and mist filled mornings,
bright early mornings, with a pack of temptations,
violet paper packages, tied up with strings,
these are a few of my favorite things....
when I read the event line quoted by Bindiya, all I could think of, was the beautiful song from sound of music. I just adapted the para with my own liking!
If you are in mood to check out my other favorite way of eating chocolate, be sure to check out chocolate Fudge and Eggless Black Forest Cake.
Be sure to check out this space for dishes cooked in Calcutta! ah that sounds like a great book title!
Padmaja says
Happy New Year to you n a your wonderful family dear!!
kamala says
U r absolutely correct srivalli.Moms place is definitely a heaven.I miss my parents here.I feel the same way like u do.Happy new year
SteamyKitchen says
happy new year to you too! may it be filled with lots of chocolate!
sunita says
Sri, that was such a sweet post...mom's place is the best :-)...btw, both my kids were born in the city of joy...have some great memories ...new year wishes to you and yours.
Suganya says
Your post makes me yearn to visit my mom. Sigh, if only we could teleport. Have a great year ahead, Srivalli.
Sig says
aaaaaaahh..this post made me all nostalgic and homesick 🙁
Glad you have a great time with the parents Srivalli.. Wish you a happy new year!
Siri says
Even I got reminded of the song for Sound Of Music Srii .. Loved reading ur post. felt so nostalgic as it has been over an year that I saw my parents and missed so badly for this New Year. Thanks for sharing ur thoughts in such a soulful way. I always love reading ur posts as they touch my heart so deeply. Thanks to this foodie blogging, I got to meet (virtually atleast) wonderful ppl like u, lathamma, ashaji and many more. Take care and have a wonderful 2008!
Hugs n Love,
~Siri
bindiya says
Yes Sri, this event was definitely inspired by sound of music song!, lovely post and lovely heart warming entry, thank you dear.
Bharathy says
Nice to know more abt your parents and their where-abouts Sri! 🙂
sureshk says
Happy new year to u, your story touches my heart.....me too likes to spend some time in my native place with my parents..which is highly impossible
Srivalli says
Jaden, Thank you for the wishes. Wish you also a great year to come..
Padmaja, Thank you so much. Wish you and your dear ones a very happy new year too!
sunita, Thank you...Thats nice to know!..New year greetings to you and your family too!
kamala, thanks...glad you liked this post! Happy new year to you
Suganya, thanks..hope you will visit your mom soon...thanks for the wishes and wish you a great year too
Sig, thanks..wish you will meet your parents soon..I am still reeling from it...Wish you a happy new year too
Siri, Thank you. Glad you liked it. ..sorry to know that..its so painful I know...So sweet of you to say such nice things..makes me feel good to have known you..
Bindiya, Glad you have this event...thanks..and glad you liked this
Bharathy, its a pleasure!
suresh, Thank you and wish you a very happy new year too darling...I know how it is...hope things work out well so that we can make it soon...